Being Alone Together

There are times when Romeyn (my wonderful husband) and I work silently, side by side or across the room from one another.   It's an easygoing silence that allows for deep thought and great productivity.  A shared purpose unites us in the silence, so we are not "alone" but we are definitely Alone Together in our activities.

A similar sense of tranquility can be maintained when an introvert is in a large crowd---it just depends upon the context.  For example, one of the most peaceful places that I've experienced is Grand Central Station.  A shared purpose unites those waiting for trains to depart or arrive.  Even when people are rushing to their destinations in the crowd, most travelers seem to avoid conflicts if possible and stick to their own paths and plans. 

This isn't a particularly comfortable station from the standpoint of having a place to sit or something specific to do while you wait.  Rather, it is more like a museum in that you can see so many things while you wait (and without interruption.)

I am the type of introvert that enjoys Being Alone Together--engaging in silent but shared activity that can be paused at any moment if either party wishes to take off or do something different.  Working together, visiting museums and reading are some of my favorites!