Friday, January 13, 2017

An Open Letter to Donald Trump



Dear Mr. President-Elect,

                Unlike many of my colleagues, family members and friends, I do not challenge your right to assume the role of President, as the Electoral College did cast the majority of their votes for you.

                As a patriot and a government-worker myself, I hold the office of the President in the highest regard.  I have even argued that every President of The United States has done at least one good thing for policy and for the public good during their tenure.  I have been called a bad liberal for believing such things, but when you are in the thick of public service, you get a much different perspective than the lobbyists on both sides of the aisle have the luxury of maintaining.

                With this in mind, and retaining the highest of respect for the office of the Commander in Chief, I implore you be vigilant, concerned, patient, and kind.  Please do not start wars during your tenure as President.  Please do not make birth control prohibitively expensive.  Please try your best to encourage the public’s esteem.  Do good works.  Assuming that we only have this one life to do the best that we possibly can—do the best that you can and be the best President that you possibly can be.  Whether Republican or Democrat, Liberal or Conservative, there is an expectation (a reasonable one) that while one is President, one should try their best to be above reproach.

                I work with finances, and so almost every day my numbers are subject to discussion—base assumptions change, expectations change.  If I took challenges, corrections, or opposition to my work personally and vented any number of reactions to these on Twitter, my job would be in jeopardy.   This is as it should be.  Public administration (whether protected by Civil Service laws or not) is the art of working with others to arrive at solutions to public problems.  Working with others is key.  I can do irreparable damage to my reputation if I do not keep that in mind.  A measure of decorum is necessary, and it is a sacrifice to provide that decorum.  Maintenance of decorum attributable to your position is the sacrifice that you are (at least minimally) agreeing to make when you step into The Office of The President of The United States.

                I can completely understand the drive to go the opposite direction – after all, your persona during the election season was a brash and outspoken candidate who breaks the rules and comes close to throwing out the rule-book.

                I have faith that you can find a middle ground to soldier ahead in the role of President without needling your public on Twitter.  We as a country need to know that you will work for all of us, not punish us for exercising the right to free speech.  Not everyone is destined to be a President.  The rules that will now apply to you are so much stricter than the rules for the rest of America.  Be worthy of the office.  Be my President, too.

Best regards,
Amanda C. Prescott, MPA

Wednesday, January 11, 2017

Simplify, Part III

Sometimes, I am told that I am a quiet person.  Now, as an Introvert, it's no secret that quiet-time is WONDERFUL for my mental health and overall sense of well-being.  However, most of the time, I have the capability to be loud, strange, and fun.  Just ask my stepsons...many is the time that they've blinked at me in horror and amusement while I invented new dance steps to peppy classical music or (the absolute horror!!!) pop songs.

In a fabulously globalized and connected world, there are times when it's simply best to keep "Shields at 100%, Captain!" Publicly (specifically in mixed company instead of with close friends), a more subdued (but still open and honest) persona emerges.  Shields are a boon to an Introvert.  It's become so socially acceptable to be in a state of constant and personal offense.  An offended state of mind is very exhausting to maintain, especially for an Introvert.

Triggers abound, trust me.  I've made no secret of the fact that I have PTSD from a time in my life that was very, very, very difficult.  I just don't publicly discuss the details (no one really needs that, and it's my business to discuss).  However, I'm hardly alone in the PTSD boat.  My Introvert Shields help with the challenges associated with sensitivity to triggers, as do the medication and counseling that constitute Part II of my PTSD-related Introvert self-care.

The simplest solution is best for me.  If I am quiet, it doesn't mean I'm offended or even unfriendly.  Sometimes, the shields go up so that I can maintain and thrive in an Extroverted world that has not been and should not be censored for my protection.

Be well, fellow Introverts.

Tuesday, January 10, 2017

Simplify, Part II

This morning, due to the wonderful (simpler) new 'do, I had a bit more time with kitties and books.  After reading time was over, I also had a bit of a quandary...all of my "greatest hits" clothing was in the laundry bin.  We've all been there.   Clothing, clothing, everywhere...but not an outfit to be had.

I decided to jump into the fray with a simpler attitude--I went shopping in my own closet.  Since not everything fits (some too big, some too small), it was frustrating but ultimately fun to find the little surprises in the corners of our walk-in closet.  I wound up with a daisy cut-out skirt, a bright teal sweater (with matching necklace), and suede boots.  It feels fantastic, fits well, and I even got a compliment on the outfit on my way to work today. 

This is all part of my effort to SIMPLIFY so that I can keep the Introvert Time flowing...

Monday, January 9, 2017

Simplify

This past month, I realized that my long hair took about an hour and a half to air-dry.  Blow-dryers are terribly noisy and uncomfortable, but the air-drying was becoming onerous--one shower, and suddenly I was "grounded" in this lovely wintry weather.

Of course, the next thought I had was, "Maybe it's time to go short again."  The difficulty with really short hair is that when you are overweight, it highlights lovely things like a mini-roll of fat on the back of the neck.  So...I needed comfort, simplicity (to air dry, perchance to avoid hair products!!), and volume.  Google was the answer.

Google Search Term:  "Short hairstyles for fat faces."
Results:  Soooooooooooo many results!

I even found a lovely website where you could upload your chubby visage and superimpose different hairstyles on top of your particular face.  That was wicked amounts of fun, because the highs were high, and the lows were...well...disturbingly Trump-like (hilarious).

I took the best results to Sarah Tebo.  Sarah, the best hairstylist I've found in Potsdam to date, executed a lovely cut that is part bob, and part pixie.  It's a bixie!

All I have to do is wash, towel-dry, and get moving.  The more tousled it gets, the more voluminous (and pretty) the style gets.  This is particularly wonderful at the gym, where I used to cuss quietly at the little bobby-pins that fell out while I used the elliptical.  For fancy occasions, a headband, perhaps with a flower on the side.

This movement towards simplicity is something I've attempted in the name of keeping my sanity during a time of extreme transitions.  My mentor has retired after a long, illustrious career.  I have reached the sandwich generation (in which you worry about the kiddos AND your parents).  I'm using reading glasses (dubbed "cheaters" if you're unfamiliar with the lingo).  Simplification allows for fewer worries and a faster morning routine...which enables me to have wonderful Introvert Time with my books and my kitties before hitting the road.

Be well, fellow Introverts.